Someone needs to hear this today
Today is a very special and important day for me because I choose it to be. I won’t say that the year was tough for me because then I would just call the negatives into being, but it wasn’t easy either. I was able to withstand great strain without tearing or breaking. Had so many challenges but grateful that I had them so that i could understand myself a little better, learn new things about myself, things I didn’t know I had or can do, and had the chance to learn more.
I have realized that we as human beings are so quick to point fingers at the next person who is doing you wrong, but the truth is that the blame is on you. Life is a journey, you have the power to allow and control everything when it comes to your sanity. It seems to be difficult when you know you have all the recourses, power and authority into choosing to do the right thing especially when problems come, you want to do the right thing and just overlook things but then you also know that people will walk all over you for deciding for what you think is just and fair , and just because you are a born again Christian , you need to hold your mouth or turn the other cheeck, but if you turn the other cheeck , you get slapped left right and centre. They crush you, and expect you to do nothing, yes, we get that, but we also have a spirit of discernment, so we can get angry too, righteously. We can vent and we can stress a point, and maybe kick you in the teeth, but that would be a problem because you call yourself a Christian, then they judge you, and honestly, who wants to be judged?
People say that they don’t care who judges them, but deep down inside they know that they do care because they don’t want to be labbled as a person that they are not. So here you are putting up this front as if nothing hurts you, meanwhile you are dying from the inside out. Here you are acting all brave and happy meanwhile, your eyes, face and the tone of your voice is busy describing the pain or sorrow that you are in. Here you are posting a joke to fit into a group of interdependent individuals, friends or family, meanwhile one line in that joke just revealed your real thoughts and feelings.
Your energy alone is a giveaway. People pick up on your vibration. If your vibration is low, then you will attract people with the same vibration, and the both of you cannot help one another.
It gets worse. So, the only decent thing to do is to stop allowing yourself to entertain negative people, or to stop allowing yourself to be talked down by negativity. Don’t be manipulated by your feelings and don’t accept it into your mind. Only you can do this to yourself. Don’t put the blame on the next person, if Suzie is like that and pietie is like this. leave them be, don’t frustrate yourself and be manipulated by the way you think about them. Change the way you think about Susie and Pietie and start changing your words about them, because what comes out of the mouth is final. Once it’s out its out, then Pietie and Susie will always be a pain in your life and they will never come right because you always speak the things about them which you see.
You are responsible for your own behaviour, doings etc. don’t tell people what to do, believe me, I am still learning that, I would rather tell me what to do and pray for them.
Change your words, say what God says about them, then God will change them.
Infact- Just say “Jesus loves you” and God will do the rest
I am not innocent, I am writing this out of experience and I am not afraid to voice my opinion. I am not perfect but I strive to love and care for the people God created on earth, He created people to LOVE
God created Adam and He felt that Adam was lonely and needed partner. He created out of Love.
We were given Free will and the Truth